Woman swept away at sea

My wife mentioned to me this story about a Filipina named Leafil Alforquee who had only been here in the United States for 3 days after being petitioned by her fiancé who lives in Oregon. Click here for the complete story. Apparently this woman and her fiancé were on a popular beach and the man was going to pop the question to her on a famous rock or beach area when a large wave came up and swept the Filipina off the rock and into the sea never to be found again. When my wife told me this story i got so mad about this guy. First question. What normal responsible man takes his fiancé to an area of a beach that's considered to be a hazardous area with Thick fog and dangerous water conditions in Neskowin Beach and proposes to her? Second question: Where is the emotions and sorrow on this guys face after this accident happens? I mean come on! We're talking about this guy’s fiancé here who he's been dating online for 3 years now. If he felt any kind of remorse, i sure missed it. You would think after that much time, there's going to be some serious tears but i don't see any. I'm so mad at this guy right now and from what I’ve heard, many other people are too. I would never, ever take my fiancé to a place that is dangerous like this to propose. And she couldn't swim either. This guy is totally irresponsible and i blame him for this whole incident. I feel so sad for the parents and i have a hard time getting this tragic accident out of my head. Anyone want to share their opinions on this and tell me how they feel i would love to hear from you.